I think you are also making a point about how some cozy SFF wants to have it both ways? Assert that labour is important, but also minimize the *labour* part of labour?

I wonder if the same sometimes applies re: the community-building element too? My impression is that it often leans towards a "found family" outcome where everyone in a very small group genuinely likes and cares about each other on a personal level, and not, say, "improving your local community involves learning to work in coalition with people you have deep disagreements with and will never be any sort of friends with and actually maybe dislike."