I suspect you will love this book, or at least admire what it's doing! I love stories about AI/robots/androids/humanity (there's a Social Network AU fic that is, like, everything I want with these tropes, I can rec it to you if you want!).

I totally have The Left Hand of Darkness on my list now; my library replaced their copy that seemed to me to be forever lost so I have no excuse! Definitely soon. :)