You're all, "WAIT THEY'RE STILL ACTUALLY REVIEWING BOOKS WHAT IS THIS MADNESS?"

What gets people off is so complicated and twisty. Who knows? It works for those folks and their kinks are okay! But it sends me directly up the sexual harassment tree like a particularly abused alley cat and hell if I'm coming down for anything less than consent forms signed in triplicate. Informed consent and lots of "YES!" is super hot to me, and my kinks are okay, too. :) It's not a small issue but because I was never into Nora Roberts for the sexy times it means that it bothers me a lot less.